凡人的任意門

     似乎才剛剛忙完凡人學期末送給老師及同學的DVD,暑假緊接著而來一連串的活動,終於到了八月,沒有特別安排什麼活動,孩子和我都可以好好沈澱一下。

      今年的八月對凡凡來說意義重大, 因為他即將升上五年級,凡凡的五年級老師已經出爐,是一位認真又嚴格的男老師,該是給凡凡試煉的時候了,我總覺得凡凡還好嫩,五六年級應該要訓練孩子有一雙強而有力的翅膀,讓他面對逆境有勇氣往前飛,即使失敗了也是難能可貴的經驗。

      回想起大學教授曾經說的話:"我的任務就是要帶你們到懸崖邊,推你們一把,不然你們永遠不會展翅高飛"。要做到在對的時間推孩子一把,對於現代的父母來說真的很難,如果在懸崖邊推一把改成放風箏,孩子如風箏,迎風吹來時,父母適時的將線慢慢鬆綁,給予自由高飛,但是最重要的是要讓孩子知道爸爸媽媽永遠在線的這端等著你,才不至於失去了方向。

      立凡,媽咪希望你高年級可以放膽的展現自我,快樂的學習已經不是你該有的專利,沒有堅持的傻勁,吃苦的焠鍊,就不會進步,加油!相信你可以的。

                            Go, my boy go.

You will be ten.

You will going to be a preteen.

What can Daddy and Mommy do for you

Be your friend, be a good listener 

And both we have to respect each other.

Go my boy go

Look at the sunny side of everything

cause you know we are always right here supporting you.

Improving yourself cause I know you can do it.

Forget the past, just keep moving forward.

Go my boy go

Just show yourself cause I know you're the performer of genius.

Don't be afraid, life is a song just sing it.

Go my boy go

Whatever you do,what kind of person you want to be

You are my boy for always.